Why a Village Matters

How to Build Your Support Network as a Multiples Parent

Raising multiples is an extraordinary journey, filled with immense joy, deep connections, and of course, unique challenges. This year’s Multiples Awareness Week theme, "Loving Me, Loving You," reminds us that strong relationships are the foundation of successful parenting, especially when raising twins, triplets, or more. One of the most valuable relationships a multiples parent can cultivate is their support network - a village of people who offer guidance, encouragement, and practical help along the way.

Why Support Matters

The saying 'it takes a village to raise a child' rings even truer for parents of multiples. The demands of caring for more than one baby at a time can feel overwhelming, but having a strong support system in place can make all the difference. A reliable network provides emotional reassurance, practical assistance, and a sense of belonging in a parenting journey that can sometimes feel isolating.

Building Your Village

Creating a support network isn’t just about finding people to help with childcare, it’s about fostering connections that sustain and uplift you as a parent. Here are some thoughts on building a strong village.

1. Connect with other multiples parents

No one understands the highs and lows of raising multiples better than those who have been through it themselves. Seek out local multiples clubs, online parenting forums, or social media groups where you can exchange tips, share experiences, and find encouragement from those who truly get it.

2. Engage family and friends

Your loved ones want to help, but they may not always know how. Be open about what kind of support you need, whether it’s a listening ear, a home-cooked meal, or an extra set of hands for bath time. Small acts of kindness from family and friends can go a long way in lightening your load.

3. Prioritise self care and your own relationships

Loving your children starts with loving yourself. Make time for rest, personal interests, and connections with your partner and friends. A well-supported parent is better equipped to handle the demands of raising multiples with patience and resilience.

The Power of Community

A strong support network does more than ease the daily challenges of parenting, it enriches the experience by fostering a sense of belonging and shared joy. Multiples bring a special kind of magic to the world, and having a village to walk alongside you makes the journey even more rewarding.

As we celebrate the 2025 Multiples Awareness Week, let’s take a moment to acknowledge the power of community and the importance of building relationships that sustain us. Whether you’re leaning on your partner, your family, or fellow multiples parents, remember that support is not a luxury - it’s a necessity. After all, loving your children means ensuring that you, too, are supported, valued, and cared for.

Multiples Hutt Valley has been proudly supporting families with twins, triplets and more for over 50 years in Hutt Valley and the Wairarapa region, extending a helping hand and fostering a sense of community among our member families through a range of initiatives that connect and uplift our members. Find out more about joining our community.